I knew it would be difficult in the heat with minimal air conditioning and frequent power cuts which render all air conditioners useless. But since I was going only for ten days, I knew I could handle it.
Paul: Make sure you drink eight glasses of water every day.
Me: Yes, I will carry my bottle of water everywhere.
Paul: And wear a large hat when you go outside.
Me: No body wears a hat in India. The last thing I want to do is feel like a "bleep" foreigner!!!
Paul: Keep your head covered.
Me: Yes, I will cover my head with my dupatta.
I would try my best not to leave the house till after sundown, I thought to myself.
I went to India (New Delhi) in June. The temperatures were just as expected - a low in the mid/high eighties and high of up to 110 degrees. I grew up in that heat. We went to school and returned home in an open rickshaw in that very heat for many years. I ate at the street-side vendors and drank water from the tap.
How does a decade of being in the US negate the first thirty years of my life? Why does the street food make me sick. Why do I have to politely decline water when I visit family? Why must I carry my own bottled water everywhere I go?
I feel so fake. Just like a frog who has always lived in/near the water but now getting close to the water gives him a cold!!! Frog's runny nose is a derogatory reference mentioned while rolling your eyes.
That is why I make a conscious effort to blend in. I want to make sure that I come across as one of them - in speech and attire, as far as possible. I have not forgotten my roots and do not want anyone to have that impression.
Before leaving, I had made a promise to myself - I won't complain about anything.
The universe smiled (more like giggled) at me.
Here are the various ways I broke that promise.
1. Mom's Surgery was delayed by 2+ hours - I complained to the PR person. I expressed my displeasure to the attending physician. And almost had a fight with my sister. She, being a doctor, understands that the duration of the previous surgery could not be accurately predicted. I rolled my eyes.
2. Our trip from New Delhi to Meerut (our home town) - The car was "supposed" to be air-conditioned, but somehow the air conditioner died on the way. The 3-hour journey was a test of my character. The worse part (yes, it gets worse) was that the driver insisted on receiving full payment. I firmly refused.
3. The heat - the only time one was really comfortable was under a shower (twice a day) and sitting in an air-conditioned room
4. Car ran out of gas - I complained to the driver that he was supposed to check it before we left. I complained that my sister who was using the car/driver the previous day did not check the gas level.
5. The heat rash - While we waited for the driver to get gas, the exposed portion of my neck broke out in a heat rash
6. The jet lag - I do not sleep well in the plane and took me a whole week to recover after I returned home.
Next time, just do not promise anything.
Now, the good news. We (sis and me) got to visit a mall in New Delhi.
It was very crowded at 5:30 in the evening. Oh, it will get worse around 8:00 PM, I was told.
I was surprised at the very modern, upscale stores including several foreign brands.
Things have certainly changed in four years.
I was more interested in the Indian outfits store and I was not disappointed. I bought two outfits and paid with my American Express credit card. Sweet!!!
The movie theater screening Angry Birds was a surprise. Definitely made me smile.
Haldirams - a famous brand of sweets/snacks had a big restaurant in the mall. It was a "safe space" to eat street food.
And we did. We ate pain poori, raj kachouri and kulfi.
They even had french fries. This is funny because I would not care for french fries (during my stay in India) but they are trying to appeal to the young Indians who may be trying to imitate the west.
Back in Meerut, I bought fabric. This was also the day the car ran out of gas and I got the heat rash. But those small inconveniences are insignificant compared to what I found.
These are south cotton fabrics. They are a lot like shot cottons, but with a self-design and a bit thicker. These are all the solids (near solids) they had.
Saving the best "find" for last. We were at the Indira Gandhi International (IGI) airport in New Deli just before our return flight, where I found this fantastic store - Ishana. It is the best of India all in one place.
The center of the store has a large, shallow pool with flower petals, translation of famous Sanskrit shlokas (devotional poetry) inscribed at the edges, and small towels kept in little baskets at the corners. Yes, they are encouraging you to soak your feet and have provided towels to wipe them off once you are done.
And you can do all this, while listening to classical Indian music, playing LIVE!!! I even recorded a short video, pardon the background noise.
Frankly, I needed nothing more than a place to meditate while I soak my feet. But they also have an excellent collection of music by Indian classical singers and instrumentalists, jewelry, art pieces, scarfs, shawls, books and sweets (free samples).
I bought red earrings and green ones too.
As we paid and were leaving, I saw these bangles and I really needed these bangles.
I had to get them :-)
Here is the bag from the store - someone actually put thought and effort into the design.
If you are at the New Delhi airport, please please visit this store. I should stop calling it a store - it was an experience!!!
Sorry, if I made you jealous and I made you drool. Here is something sweet and more accessible -Craftsy Sale!!!
Honestly, I have been drooling over this fabric for months. However, I stayed strong and did not buy at full price. Today the sweet sale is here. And I have just bought this Blueberry Park cool FQ by Karen Lewis
Fortunately the Blueberry Park Bright FQ is also on sale. So I had to buy that one as well.
Seriously, I bought both of them. No, I am not saying that just because I am shamelessly promoting Craftsy. Here is the proof.
Look at the price!!! And get them while they last. The cool FQ is already sold out at Missouri Star and the bright FQ is almost $75. Therefore getting both of them at under $62 each was a joyous dance moment!!! Hope you find something (either in my post or in the sale) to cheer up your weekend. As always, I am thrilled when you let me know :-)
This blogpost contains affiliate links.
Paul: Make sure you drink eight glasses of water every day.
Me: Yes, I will carry my bottle of water everywhere.
Paul: And wear a large hat when you go outside.
Me: No body wears a hat in India. The last thing I want to do is feel like a "bleep" foreigner!!!
Paul: Keep your head covered.
Me: Yes, I will cover my head with my dupatta.
I would try my best not to leave the house till after sundown, I thought to myself.
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| On our way to see mom |
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| Mixed traffic |
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| An irate guy yelling at our driver for cutting him off |
That is why I make a conscious effort to blend in. I want to make sure that I come across as one of them - in speech and attire, as far as possible. I have not forgotten my roots and do not want anyone to have that impression.
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| Taking care of Mom |
The universe smiled (more like giggled) at me.
Here are the various ways I broke that promise.
1. Mom's Surgery was delayed by 2+ hours - I complained to the PR person. I expressed my displeasure to the attending physician. And almost had a fight with my sister. She, being a doctor, understands that the duration of the previous surgery could not be accurately predicted. I rolled my eyes.
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| Jetlagged, tired, sleepy and very hot |
3. The heat - the only time one was really comfortable was under a shower (twice a day) and sitting in an air-conditioned room
4. Car ran out of gas - I complained to the driver that he was supposed to check it before we left. I complained that my sister who was using the car/driver the previous day did not check the gas level.
5. The heat rash - While we waited for the driver to get gas, the exposed portion of my neck broke out in a heat rash
6. The jet lag - I do not sleep well in the plane and took me a whole week to recover after I returned home.
Next time, just do not promise anything.
Now, the good news. We (sis and me) got to visit a mall in New Delhi.
It was very crowded at 5:30 in the evening. Oh, it will get worse around 8:00 PM, I was told.
I was surprised at the very modern, upscale stores including several foreign brands.
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| Hmmmm... |
Things have certainly changed in four years.
I was more interested in the Indian outfits store and I was not disappointed. I bought two outfits and paid with my American Express credit card. Sweet!!!
 |
| It is more green than blue |
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| Ooh Orange Top + Off-White Bottoms |
Haldirams - a famous brand of sweets/snacks had a big restaurant in the mall. It was a "safe space" to eat street food.
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| Haldirams Restaurant |
And we did. We ate pain poori, raj kachouri and kulfi.
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| Paani Poori + Spicy Chutneys |
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| Kulfi Falooda (Indian ice-cream served with noodles) |
Back in Meerut, I bought fabric. This was also the day the car ran out of gas and I got the heat rash. But those small inconveniences are insignificant compared to what I found.
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| Warm Colors |
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| Cool Ones |
Saving the best "find" for last. We were at the Indira Gandhi International (IGI) airport in New Deli just before our return flight, where I found this fantastic store - Ishana. It is the best of India all in one place.
 |
| Soothing Pool |
The center of the store has a large, shallow pool with flower petals, translation of famous Sanskrit shlokas (devotional poetry) inscribed at the edges, and small towels kept in little baskets at the corners. Yes, they are encouraging you to soak your feet and have provided towels to wipe them off once you are done.
 |
| Live Music |
And you can do all this, while listening to classical Indian music, playing LIVE!!! I even recorded a short video, pardon the background noise.
 |
| Pleasantly Surprised |
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| Earrings with red minakari |
I bought red earrings and green ones too.
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| Green Minakari Earring for about $12 |
I had to get them :-)
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| Bangles inlaid with pearls!!! |
Here is the bag from the store - someone actually put thought and effort into the design.
If you are at the New Delhi airport, please please visit this store. I should stop calling it a store - it was an experience!!!
Sorry, if I made you jealous and I made you drool. Here is something sweet and more accessible -Craftsy Sale!!!
Honestly, I have been drooling over this fabric for months. However, I stayed strong and did not buy at full price. Today the sweet sale is here. And I have just bought this Blueberry Park cool FQ by Karen Lewis
Fortunately the Blueberry Park Bright FQ is also on sale. So I had to buy that one as well.
Seriously, I bought both of them. No, I am not saying that just because I am shamelessly promoting Craftsy. Here is the proof.
Look at the price!!! And get them while they last. The cool FQ is already sold out at Missouri Star and the bright FQ is almost $75. Therefore getting both of them at under $62 each was a joyous dance moment!!! Hope you find something (either in my post or in the sale) to cheer up your weekend. As always, I am thrilled when you let me know :-)
This blogpost contains affiliate links.
