My mom was just 14 when she was married off (nobody asked her). Of course she was not "sent" to her husband's house for another year (she was too young).
My dad encouraged her to continue her education. She completed high school and received a BA in Geography. I was born.
She furthered her education and received an MA in Economics. My sister was born.
My dad encouraged her to get a job. She refused flatly.
No, she was determined to be a full time mother and a homemaker.
And that was that.
Some 20 years later, when I got married (arranged), my husband expected me to be a homemaker.
No, I said. We (He and I) both went to school for Architecture and got the same degree.
Why should I stay at home, I argued.
He replied that I should be like my mother, who sacrificed her career for the sake of her family.
You miss the point, I retorted. She had a choice and she chose to be a homemaker.
I should have the same choice.
Of course, he did not see my point. I left.
We live in a world where many women have no choices and no voices.
So when I came across this fabric at Joann's, it made me sing and dance with joy. I had to drop everything and make (something with) it.
Me: Look. look, Paul. I love this fabric.
Paul: It is nifty.
Me: It is more than nifty. It is both aspirational and a reflection of our times. It not only shows women in science. It shows diverse women in science.
Paul: Is that so?
Me: See there are five of them and each one has a different hair color.
Paul: What are you going to make with it?
Me: Everything.
Paul: Everything?
Me: Yes. Sheets, bed-covers, pillow-covers, curtains, may be a dress and...
Paul: Start with a pencil case.
Gotta love this man. He knows how to push my buttons and rein me in - all at the same time.
So I started with a pencil case. But made two.
The sliver leftover became part of a mug rug. I purposely offset the scientist gal to the the side so that even when you place a coffee mug and a cookie on the rug, you can still see her.
And then inspiration struck...
Fussy cut girls, each in her own place doing what she loves.
Is it still a Dreami if it is a fabric that sparks the process?
I am sure Sandra will agree.
Is it a coincidence that I came across this fabric this month - Women's History Month?
Possibly. But I do believe that the Universe works in magical ways.
I have named each one of these wonder women.
This is Sveta, named after Svitlana Mayoboroda, a mathematician from Ukraine.
I am calling her Taywa, after Taiwo Olayemi Elufioye who is a Nigerian pharmacologist and researcher.
Her name is Eve, after Eva Maria Neher who is a German scientist doing research in biochemistry and microbiology.
And she is named Myla, after Mayly Sanchez who is a Venezuela-born particle physicist.
The names of my quilty gals are inspired by these women in science today. I have included links to their wikipedia pages because I can use a shot of positivity to conquer whatever obstacle lies in my path today.
So I may not have made everything from key-fob to curtains from this fabric but I can definitely be inspired from here to far and beyond. What will you conquer today?
I will be linking with all my favorite linky parties. See full list on the sidebar.
She furthered her education and received an MA in Economics. My sister was born.
My dad encouraged her to get a job. She refused flatly.
No, she was determined to be a full time mother and a homemaker.
And that was that.
My sister, mom and me |
Some 20 years later, when I got married (arranged), my husband expected me to be a homemaker.
No, I said. We (He and I) both went to school for Architecture and got the same degree.
Why should I stay at home, I argued.
He replied that I should be like my mother, who sacrificed her career for the sake of her family.
You miss the point, I retorted. She had a choice and she chose to be a homemaker.
I should have the same choice.
Of course, he did not see my point. I left.
Mom and me in 2007 |
Mom approved of Paul (Her looks says it all) |
We live in a world where many women have no choices and no voices.
So when I came across this fabric at Joann's, it made me sing and dance with joy. I had to drop everything and make (something with) it.
STEM Gals |
Me: Look. look, Paul. I love this fabric.
Paul: It is nifty.
Me: It is more than nifty. It is both aspirational and a reflection of our times. It not only shows women in science. It shows diverse women in science.
Paul: Is that so?
Me: See there are five of them and each one has a different hair color.
Paul: What are you going to make with it?
Me: Everything.
Paul: Everything?
Me: Yes. Sheets, bed-covers, pillow-covers, curtains, may be a dress and...
Paul: Start with a pencil case.
Gotta love this man. He knows how to push my buttons and rein me in - all at the same time.
So I started with a pencil case. But made two.
Zippered Pouch |
Two Pouches |
Loving it :-) |
The sliver leftover became part of a mug rug. I purposely offset the scientist gal to the the side so that even when you place a coffee mug and a cookie on the rug, you can still see her.
Mug Rug |
And then inspiration struck...
Fussy cut girls, each in her own place doing what she loves.
Celebrating Women |
Small Finish - Big Smile |
Love this fabric |
Is it still a Dreami if it is a fabric that sparks the process?
I am sure Sandra will agree.
Is it a coincidence that I came across this fabric this month - Women's History Month?
Possibly. But I do believe that the Universe works in magical ways.
I have named each one of these wonder women.
This is Sveta, named after Svitlana Mayoboroda, a mathematician from Ukraine.
Sveta |
I am calling her Taywa, after Taiwo Olayemi Elufioye who is a Nigerian pharmacologist and researcher.
Taywa |
Her name is Eve, after Eva Maria Neher who is a German scientist doing research in biochemistry and microbiology.
Eve |
And she is named Myla, after Mayly Sanchez who is a Venezuela-born particle physicist.
Myla |
The names of my quilty gals are inspired by these women in science today. I have included links to their wikipedia pages because I can use a shot of positivity to conquer whatever obstacle lies in my path today.
So I may not have made everything from key-fob to curtains from this fabric but I can definitely be inspired from here to far and beyond. What will you conquer today?
I will be linking with all my favorite linky parties. See full list on the sidebar.